STEPMOM

I wrote the following article for Stepmom Magazine in June 2010, to address a very crucial question for stepfamilies: to what degree is the stepparent a parent? You will find that the answer depends on the family. Research shows that there are well-adjusted stepfamilies on both sides of the spectrum regarding this issue. I cover [...]

Approaches to Stepparenting that WORK Here are a some suggestions for new stepparents – and for those that are trying to correct a situation that might be going in the wrong direction! 1.  Focus first on forging a warm and friendly interaction style with the stepchildren.  Listen to them, get to know them, and focus [...]

In the range of relationships in stepfamilies, the stepfather stepson relationship does not have a reputation of being one of the most difficult – if it’s handled correctly! If you are a stepfather wanting to develop a good stepfather stepson relationship, here are some good questions to ask yourself: What is the relationship between your [...]

In a stepfamily, blended parenting has many challenges, due to the differences in parenting styles that often collide rather than blend. Here’s some relationship advice for stepmoms, stepchildren, and stepdads that is fundamental to all relationships.  If you want to grow a bond of love that lasts in the long run, start with respect.  All [...]

If you are in a remarriage with children, you face some particular difficulties. Of course, you love your children, and feel loyal and protective towards them, and yet you have a spouse to consider, who may see your children differently than you do. You may feel stuck in the middle, not knowing how to make [...]