Comments on: Your Ex-Husband’s Wife: The Stepmom

By: pixie

pixie — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 11:40:17 +0000

I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex – who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect xxx

By: Jessica

Jessica — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 14:59:03 +0000

I would like to hear more about how to deal with my husband not being on a united front with me (his current wife) oppossed to going with what the X says for lack of causing waves and upsetting her… but in the end he and I are fighting.
I feel 2nd in my own marriage.

By: Mommyminnie

Mommyminnie — Mon, 05 Sep 2011 14:33:37 +0000

Lisa, have your husband communicate these issues with the school councilor, se. Up a meeting and explain the situation. (assuming your husband has joint legal custody)

As for me I am buying the book. The biomom in my situation would probably never take it. But when I’m finished with it, I will offer it to her.

By: lisa

lisa — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 16:46:37 +0000

I’m dealing with my husband’s ex-wife now. She would never accept that book to read however it is given or presented. She delights in attempting to make my relationship with my step-daughter miserable. I say attempt because it doesn’t work to the extent that she gets me to engage, but I hate to see what it is doing to her own daughter who is eight. It’s really sad. I wanted to get my step-daughter in counseling so she’ll have a neutral party to talk to but her mom won’t let her. What can I do to save my step-daughters mental health? I talk to her and provide an excellent role model but her struggle is…….her mom won’t let her love me or she’ll be in trouble to put it in her own words. She’s not even allowed to say my name at her mom’s house. Even worse, my step-daughter admits to giving her mom false information about our care for her in an effort to seek approval from her mother. Then the mother lashes out as us. This is a daily occurrence. I need to find a solution for this little girl.

By: Ksenia

Ksenia — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 17:27:59 +0000

This is just amazing post! It’s showing so true biological mother behavior!

By: admin

admin — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 16:51:21 +0000

Jesica,
I hope it works out for you! Hopefully it can be given in such a way that she can’t take it the wrong way… You’re so right, it’s the children who most suffer, and that’s probably the best way “in” to improving communications as I’m sure she loves her children, and once she realizes the hurt she’s causing… Watch for a free introduction to Creating a Successful Stepfamily soon – it will include a story from the mom’s perspective on this.

By: Jesica

Jesica — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 14:00:14 +0000

I love this post. I am thinking about buying my self the book and buying the kids’ mother the book for mothers day. i can only hope she wont throw it away without even thinking about the benefits it would have on both of us. I cant wait for the day that pettiness is out the door and happy living is in the air for the kids and us. I hate to see the kids suffering through all the parent alienation and verbal damage to thier mentality. Thankyou!!!

By: admin

admin — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 20:15:58 +0000

Thanks, I’d love to have you join the discussion on the Fan Page StepfamilySOS on FB!

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